Paradigms of my Mind

You may surf the net for weeks or try to find anything that will really give you the secret to healing a broken heart but non of it will help you. The symptoms of "heartbreak" are different for every individual. While most guys find comfort in distractions like work and sports, most women need the relief of tears and talking. However, heartbreak doesn't always differentiate itself by gender. There are plenty of guys who have buried themselves under a comforter for days after losing the love of their life and there are plenty of women who spent years in denial avoiding serious relationships for fear of getting hurt. Sometimes you may want to self-evaluate. Sometimes you might fire yourself up with general hatred for the opposite sex and the sometimes the optimists in you will say, don't worry the Right person is still out there. When you dealing with heartbreak, most people will tell you "everything will be ok."   But what you want is someone that can under...

someone once asked me Who are you? The most simple answer I could give to the question is even I do not know. Every individual perceives the world in a different and unique way.For some what defines a person is a list of their accolades and specific facts that fit in labels and for others it is their personal qualities. as for me it doesn't really matter where you come from or what your past was like or how great you are or your achievements as long as you are true to yourself!! "Live the life you love love the life you live"

A common human condition is to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side. If you're not familiar with this metaphor, it means that people take for granted what they have and yearn for something else, even if that something else is pretty much the same thing as they currently have. What we do not realize is that maybe the grass isn't as green as we think it is? It always may look better on the other side, may it be actual grass, your friend's car, your friend’s house,  someone else's job etc. So many people are not satisfied with what they have. They think that all the above examples would be a better way to live their lives. What they don't realize, is that often they already have so many perfect things in their lives their friends, partner or spouse, job.  The sad part is that is usually takes losing or nearly losing what they have in order for them to realize how much it means to them and how happy they were with what they had or already have,   Freedom,...