healing your heart

You may surf the net for weeks or try to find anything that will really give you the secret to healing a broken heart but non of it will help you.

The symptoms of "heartbreak" are different for every individual. While most guys find comfort in distractions like work and sports, most women need the relief of tears and talking. However, heartbreak doesn't always differentiate itself by gender. There are plenty of guys who have buried themselves under a comforter for days after losing the love of their life and there are plenty of women who spent years in denial avoiding serious relationships for fear of getting hurt.

Sometimes you may want to self-evaluate. Sometimes you might fire yourself up with general hatred for the opposite sex and the sometimes the optimists in you will say, don't worry the Right person is still out there.
When you dealing with heartbreak, most people will tell you "everything will be ok."  But what you want is someone that can understand and identify with your pain or for someone to say ”I’ve been there and I know how u feel”.  

Heartbreak has this horrible way of making you feel like you're alone in the world.
However, when the pain of a broken heart is ravaging your body any words of wisdom seem more like trying to talk a virus out of creating an infection. Just like there is no magical drug that can cure any virus, you have no other choice but to let your broken heart just run its course and realize that
“If you love something set it free, if it does not return then it is not meant to be!”

so if something’s meant to be it is meant to be if it’s not it’s not only time will tell.



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