Paradigms of my Mind

I am so perplexed at the idea of how we human strive to be unique yet still shun people who do not conform to the norms set by society or laws set by society or governments. we call our selves intelligent yet what we call exams are merely repeating exactly what we read in a book and nothing more than being like parrots. so are we in fact intelligent. also then why do we stick to groups such as different cast's different creeds and we have animosity towards each other but isn't this all man made and why do we forget that we are all human. we fight wars over different sects set fourth by us and i cannot comprehend to what accord. so if we are non the wiser, wiser than parrots that is we should not think of our selves but the greater good because if we improve the infrastructure or the foundation rather set grounds to improve whole of humanity rather than enrich a few. why is this greed to amass wealth when we know tha...

some think that the best in life  is to that they can get is a live in a big house four walls and a roof may make a house but not a home some think that the best in life is a home the home is no good if it got no family but a family is not a family unless u have children  some think that the best in life is their children children may be great but what if they are bad eggs some men think the best they can get is a good food food maybe good but what good is it if its not healthy health is good but if your alone what good is health some men think solitude is good for it helps you think what good is solitude if you got no one to share your thoughts with people are good but what good are they if they are not friends some thin best in life is goof friends but what good are friends if you cannot meet meat is good but veggie is better but if we all are veggie what of the plants Okay my point is, In anything and everything you can find pro's and ...

Another year is coming to an end and they say i'm growing older but i feel the same and i'm non the more wise nor am i mature and i still feel the same. As i look back at my life I've been put through trials and tribulations I've had good times and bad lost a few good friends along the way and gained some amazing new ones. reconnected with old friends and make a ton of mistakes and a hint of advise never type a mail or message you don't intend to send  immediately i did that mistake on the 1st of October but i don't regret it for this moment gave me the initial inspiration to write the poem thats posted up on "poetry in motion" :) some say don't look back in life and regret about the mistakes you've made or that u dwell in the past and you will not be happy but i say nay you have to look back and realize the mistakes you've made and learn form it u have to look back and cherish the good memories you have and hold on to them tight. so...

LABELS AND STEREOTYPES??? Sociologically speaking, people feel like they are alone so they become a part of a group!! A of a group is something that can give someone a sense of community. Most part of them are a religious groupor race, but require smaller groups so they can engage in more personal social interaction. and some think it's socially healthy to stick to them on the contrary,  most people  "assign" other people what stereotypical person they think they are and measure people based on that stereotypes attributes that society has bestowed upon these stereotypes or as i would like to call it typecasts. Some people would say that I'm a loner, others would say that I'm a goth, i'm a nerd etc other people would think I'm emo. The popular people made up this stereotyping so that they can kind of "raise" their popularity. It makes them confident that they're cool,  when they're only doing pointless things that make them SEEM ...

You may surf the net for weeks or try to find anything that will really give you the secret to healing a broken heart but non of it will help you. The symptoms of "heartbreak" are different for every individual. While most guys find comfort in distractions like work and sports, most women need the relief of tears and talking. However, heartbreak doesn't always differentiate itself by gender. There are plenty of guys who have buried themselves under a comforter for days after losing the love of their life and there are plenty of women who spent years in denial avoiding serious relationships for fear of getting hurt. Sometimes you may want to self-evaluate. Sometimes you might fire yourself up with general hatred for the opposite sex and the sometimes the optimists in you will say, don't worry the Right person is still out there. When you dealing with heartbreak, most people will tell you "everything will be ok."   But what you want is someone that can under...

someone once asked me Who are you? The most simple answer I could give to the question is even I do not know. Every individual perceives the world in a different and unique way.For some what defines a person is a list of their accolades and specific facts that fit in labels and for others it is their personal qualities. as for me it doesn't really matter where you come from or what your past was like or how great you are or your achievements as long as you are true to yourself!! "Live the life you love love the life you live"

A common human condition is to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side. If you're not familiar with this metaphor, it means that people take for granted what they have and yearn for something else, even if that something else is pretty much the same thing as they currently have. What we do not realize is that maybe the grass isn't as green as we think it is? It always may look better on the other side, may it be actual grass, your friend's car, your friend’s house,  someone else's job etc. So many people are not satisfied with what they have. They think that all the above examples would be a better way to live their lives. What they don't realize, is that often they already have so many perfect things in their lives their friends, partner or spouse, job.  The sad part is that is usually takes losing or nearly losing what they have in order for them to realize how much it means to them and how happy they were with what they had or already have,   Freedom,...